It's the most connected age in human history; more people that ever are communicating with those they know - and perhaps even more with those they don't. But at the same time, loneliness has become a mental health epidemic in developed countries, raising questions about the unintended consequences of such social engineering.
It may be that the same devices are enabling both trends, making it easier to 'curate' those communications, creating distance through the substitution of symbols like emojis and short bursts of text for the slower, more intense art of conversation. And that becoming a 'generous listener' is the rarest gift humans can now bestow. JL
Kate Murphy reports in the New York Times:
In a survey of
20,000 Americans, half said they did not have meaningful
in-person social interactions, such as an extended conversation
with a friend, on a daily basis. The same proportion said they felt isolated. A lack of listening is a contributor to feelings of loneliness. Technology doesn’t help. Devices are a constant distraction, and people tend to be inaccurate at interpreting feelings through text and emoji. The best way to understand those closest to us is to spend
time with them, put down phones and actually listen to what they
have to say.