Germans resent supporting profligate Greeks. Greeks resent supporting greedy Germans. Chinese bureaucrats grab what they can to get ahead, thinking their hard work means they deserve the spoils. Those who bought into the notion of a flat society feel advantage is being taken. In the US, banks resent mortgage settlements that might cost them some profit, but revive the economy and thereby promising them more. Mortgage defaulters resent supporting banks who do not acknowledge the unrealistically bad deal they were sold on to begin with. And so on.
There are two problems with this unwillingness to compromise. Firstly, lack of perspective clouds our judgment. Researchers call it 'self-serving bias.' Or where you sit determines where you stand. We choose not to see the other sides' point of view because it might render our own insupportable. The second problem is that the lack of objectivity causes us to focus more on the other person's potential gain and less on our own resultant loss than on what a rational compromise might deliver for both.
This is part of a larger societal problem. These arguments tend to happen at times of resource deprivation. There is less to go around. Previously held assumptions about what the future would hold have been shattered. Everyone feels threatened. There is no mood of compromise. And we have acquiesced to a 'winner-take-all' social arrangement. We may be forced by the strength of these resentments, hurts and lost hopes, to endure more suffering than necessary. But that may be the only 'fair' way to get the point across that splitting the difference is, for the majority, the logical outcome. JL
James Surowiecki comments in The New Yorker:
The basic problem is that we care so much about fairness that we are often willing to sacrifice economic well-being to enforce it. Behavioral economists have shown that a sizable percentage of people are willing to pay real money to punish people who are taking from a common pot but not contributing to it. Just to insure that shirkers get what they deserve, we are prepared to make ourselves poorer.







































